Be thankful for Your love relationship that ago, even for the most painful relationship once did. These tragic events is the key to open yourself to the possibility of a better relationship.
However, how can I be grateful for anything that causes us to feel hurt, humiliated and or utilized. What should I be grateful?
Remember, any relationship happens for a reason which helps us become a better person. As such, we will be faced with two options: take the considerations behind or constantly feel miserable.
Try to imagine yourself in 5, 10 or 15 years ago. Roughly what has changed now? All the negative and painful events that you've experienced have left a trace on your self. If you choose to learn from all of it will make you stronger and more independent. But most importantly, bad relationships that have ended up directing You to a better relationship in the future. Why? Because you will be compelled to do not want to experience the same thing.
Experience the negative relationship will pose a question to you: If it's not what you want, then what? What you can do differently to avoid this situation in the future? The most painful incident will be stronger leave a trace in your subconscious mind. That way, there is a need to avoid people and behavior patterns that tend to will put you in the same position again. These are mechanisms that help you make wiser decisions and measures.
The problem is it's hard to see it that way when you're in the dumps. It's hard to let go of the hatred and the judgment of people who hurt and feel grateful, right?
Lubov Skurina, author of 4 Steps to Soulmate Attraction holds precisely when looking to feel lost and sad do not opposed to such feelings. The first step is you need to accept the negative emotions you are going through at the time. Let yourself feel the sufferings to the maximum. But also with the confidence that your suffering will come to an end. Don't be in a hurry trying to rule out Your feeling sad. The harder you throw her out, the stronger those feelings endure.
Follow the flow of feeling that, until not too intense as the early heartbreak. Or when you're feeling tired cry, tears are shed feels it is dry, nobody else can shed. Then try to imagine yourself a year from now. Will it have the same meaning for you? What lessons can you draw from this relationship that will make a difference in the lives of your future? Then imagine Your future relationships. Create a vision of the relationship to come. a healthy relationship.
However, how can I be grateful for anything that causes us to feel hurt, humiliated and or utilized. What should I be grateful?
Remember, any relationship happens for a reason which helps us become a better person. As such, we will be faced with two options: take the considerations behind or constantly feel miserable.
Try to imagine yourself in 5, 10 or 15 years ago. Roughly what has changed now? All the negative and painful events that you've experienced have left a trace on your self. If you choose to learn from all of it will make you stronger and more independent. But most importantly, bad relationships that have ended up directing You to a better relationship in the future. Why? Because you will be compelled to do not want to experience the same thing.
Experience the negative relationship will pose a question to you: If it's not what you want, then what? What you can do differently to avoid this situation in the future? The most painful incident will be stronger leave a trace in your subconscious mind. That way, there is a need to avoid people and behavior patterns that tend to will put you in the same position again. These are mechanisms that help you make wiser decisions and measures.
The problem is it's hard to see it that way when you're in the dumps. It's hard to let go of the hatred and the judgment of people who hurt and feel grateful, right?
Lubov Skurina, author of 4 Steps to Soulmate Attraction holds precisely when looking to feel lost and sad do not opposed to such feelings. The first step is you need to accept the negative emotions you are going through at the time. Let yourself feel the sufferings to the maximum. But also with the confidence that your suffering will come to an end. Don't be in a hurry trying to rule out Your feeling sad. The harder you throw her out, the stronger those feelings endure.
Follow the flow of feeling that, until not too intense as the early heartbreak. Or when you're feeling tired cry, tears are shed feels it is dry, nobody else can shed. Then try to imagine yourself a year from now. Will it have the same meaning for you? What lessons can you draw from this relationship that will make a difference in the lives of your future? Then imagine Your future relationships. Create a vision of the relationship to come. a healthy relationship.
