Hi ladies, how are you? May you always be blessed the airy heart to want to forgive others.
A few days ago, the team The Best Female a chance to vent or share with a friend, we call it the name Indri. He told me about his past that very hate a woman who's been destroying his parents ' marriage.
Revenge Does Not Make Me Happy
Long story short, the father of the woman having an affair with Indri when Indri is still 15 years old. The incident was eventually heard by Mrs Indri, he insisted on maintaining his marriage, but fate willed otherwise, he died a year later. "The mother is always healthy, but after knowing the father is having an affair, he's so easy to get sick," Indri story. "I know MOM definitely depressed, after mother know that infidelity, the father thus rarely go home. As an entrepreneur, father of our financial needs adequately, but the affair was clearly a Burr that hurt families. It was in vain my mother maintains her marriage until his death, "
Since then, the woman who hated the Indri is having an affair with his father. According to Indri, the woman that is what makes his mother died, the woman also makes his father's business and went bankrupt. After the woman left, the life of Indri and his father was deteriorating. Indri hatred is very rampant. From a good girl, Indri wanted revenge. "He comes to destroy women's lives hell to Dad," continued Indri, "it feels like I'll be happy if his life was also destroyed. She has already ruined my life and my family, so I think he deserved it, "
"Back then, I film. Almost any time I use the services of traditional birth attendants to destroy the life of the woman with the wizards, "Indri said with a smile of bitter. "Stupid indeed, but I'm in condition slumped, even I have forgotten if I have God. I was thinking only of revenge for the mother and for the sake of the fathers. It doesn't matter if my savings run out for vengeance ".
The Dream Was To Change My Life ...
Indri told me that one night, just a day before he met the shaman to the most women love potion preying she hated, she dreamed of meeting with her mother. In the dream, his mother said, "my son, do not waste your life with a vengeance. The mother is no longer there presents because God willed it so. Revenge isn't going to make you happy, the mother will not be happy even though you replies it a grudge to mother ... "continued Indri while dreamy considering his dream. "Mothers also said, why are you not forgive and take care of your father? She miss you, Indri. "
Then, the Indri instantly awakened. Until late in the morning, he thought of a dream that seemed very real. He plumbed the mind and heart. "As it turns out, I have yet to forgive the father over her marital infidelity. It feels like my cheeks got hot slap. I was thinking just of revenge, whether how many years wasted for that matter. In fact, I can do other things that are more useful, such as caring for my father, because he's the only family I have left. I feel very stupid for not bothering with a father who fell to start again konveksiknya efforts. I even forgot the last time talking with my father. "
Relieved Forgive
After obtaining the dream, his father having direct Indri to apologize for his not caring and just the thought of revenge. "It was like my heart wide open to forgiving father. I knew dad was wrong, but I am also a man full of sin, so it feels inappropriate if I condemn the father with no matter to him, "
Since then, the Indri is already 21 years old his father's efforts to resurrect their family convection. Regardless of their lives are improved and warmer than before, the Indri is feeling very happy. That's the real happiness, as she loves and is loved by someone.
Indri thus was relieved because he didn't get his revenge on the woman who ruined his family life. "Let it be, I had forgotten the whole thing. If there is retaliation, let the Lord replies. I just spend the time to people I love. "
Until recently, Indri considers his dream is more than just a flower bed. She thinks the dream is as delicate scolding of the Lord to remember him back and cling to her.
"Rather than spend life with a grudge or revenge on others that we hate, better power and divert the mind to appease the people we care about. That's where true happiness lies. "
