A divorce happens to parents not only hurts their hearts, but also the fruit of the heart. In order to minimize the negative effects that may arise, parents need to give specific explanations on the fruit of the real state of liver related.
It's hard for a parent to tell the truth about the case of a divorce they experienced to his sons. However, honesty be important things that needs to be delivered so that hatred in themselves are not growing.
Yammer artist sues for divorce recently, for example, need to be coupled with psychic responsibility towards the child. In a sense, when they reach a divorce, do not make the child as a victim. To that end, the role of parents is crucial in giving understanding in children, especially those still in the minors.
According to psychologist and lecturer at the Faculty of Psychology Young Padjadjaran University, Bandung, Fredrick Ancient Benefactors MPsi, usually a child will ask about the integrity of his parents at the age of four or five years.
"If at that age have started asking where his father or mother, as a parent it's worth explaining to the child with simple language and does not increase the cause of their divorce," he said this bespectacled man while talking with some of the speakers via a telephone connection.
Usually, the most difficult thing for parents to explain about the separation of the household in which the child see directly squabbles between his parents. Because it is not only painful for parents, but the children will also feel the pain he saw.
However, if the child was a toddler, then there is no harm to keep providing time and space for the children to meet with his father.
"A simple Language, such as saying that his father was no longer living with us, but the child still has a father figure, considered important for a mother to reveal it on the child who asks. So, don't ever increase incidence of divorce because it would give rise to resentment later on the child, regardless of who is wrong and correct, "the lid.
It's hard for a parent to tell the truth about the case of a divorce they experienced to his sons. However, honesty be important things that needs to be delivered so that hatred in themselves are not growing.
Yammer artist sues for divorce recently, for example, need to be coupled with psychic responsibility towards the child. In a sense, when they reach a divorce, do not make the child as a victim. To that end, the role of parents is crucial in giving understanding in children, especially those still in the minors.
According to psychologist and lecturer at the Faculty of Psychology Young Padjadjaran University, Bandung, Fredrick Ancient Benefactors MPsi, usually a child will ask about the integrity of his parents at the age of four or five years.
"If at that age have started asking where his father or mother, as a parent it's worth explaining to the child with simple language and does not increase the cause of their divorce," he said this bespectacled man while talking with some of the speakers via a telephone connection.
Usually, the most difficult thing for parents to explain about the separation of the household in which the child see directly squabbles between his parents. Because it is not only painful for parents, but the children will also feel the pain he saw.
However, if the child was a toddler, then there is no harm to keep providing time and space for the children to meet with his father.
"A simple Language, such as saying that his father was no longer living with us, but the child still has a father figure, considered important for a mother to reveal it on the child who asks. So, don't ever increase incidence of divorce because it would give rise to resentment later on the child, regardless of who is wrong and correct, "the lid.
