Apparently boys need a friend

Apparently boys need a friend



Now we see, at least in the area near the school in school hours, children teens men clustered with friends like. While adult men, tend to be aloof and no problem if you don't spend a lot of time with her friends as often as when he was a teenager. Then, what about the boys? (Read: Bede's boys and girls in friend)

Dr. Michael Handwerk, PhD from the Institute of child health researchers in Nebraska, USA, revealed that for boys, friendship is a necessity that cannot be bargained. According to Handwerk, a son basically does not need a lot of friends, as long as he has a best friend. The kids find it easier to be swayed into negative things if he had no friends.

Friendship provides a way for children to build a relationship with the world outside her family. Through this relationship, the children learn to consider other viewpoints, learning to negotiate, were tolerated, and learn the skills that he needed to be able to live my life in the future.

Encouraging sons to friends
If the child does not yet have any signs of starting to establish friendships with colleagues her age, parents could take the role to push it without forcing myself to find the meaning of friendship in life.

  • Get up close in the first 24 months of life. By keeping the proximity with the child, he or she will learn to trust other people, without it, he would be afraid to touch.
  • Create an opportunity for children to build friendships. For example, promise with friends parents the child for a visit to his home and letting the child play with her friend, and vice versa, invite children and their parents to play in your home. Alternatively, invite your child to the playground, help the child get acquainted with children her age, or include the child in activities activities that children love, such as sports or music lessons.
  •  Create training socializing. "How many parents who taught his son how to start friendship correctly?" asked Dr. Handwerk. Don't think the introduction or the ability to start a friendship comes naturally. And parents need to be able to teach her son form a relationship in a positive and healthy friendship with train it, e.g., how to approach a group of a group of children. Don't forget to look at the way children play with peers. At home, offer your help to train it started getting to know if he looks hard to close peers.

Build friendship and the ability to mingle with peers takes practice, and You as a parent are either worth a look at this, because it is a bit much, friendship for boy had an influence on his future.
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