The case of bullying is still often occurs in Indonesia. Psychologist Roslina Verauli, MPsi, revealed bullying is negative actions, either physical or verbal actions, carried out on a person who is deemed to be weak so as to cause physical or mental pressure.
"Children who frequently bully was a child minder, tend not to have friends and reserved," said Roslina while women's beauty product launch some time ago in Jakarta.
He added, the active role of the parents is required to minimize the occurrence of bullying. Roslina then divide tips to minimize the risk of the threat of bullying on children:
1. Teach children reveal discomfrot
According to Roslina, parents often forget to teach children to make brazenly expressing feelings when feeling uncomfortable or not treated fairly. For example, when there was a someone who is nearby spit, teach children to admonish that person in a way that is polite.
Similar with Roslina, sexual psychologist Zoya Amirin also reveals the importance of this. "It also could help girls avoid the sexual abuse that might be experienced," said Zoya
2. Teach children to get along
One of the causes of bullying is the inability of the child to have a lot of friends, so prefer to be alone. The type of the child such as this tend to be considered weak so easily bullied. Identify the causes why children love to be alone, and then help them to be able to have a lot of friends.
3. Fix the concept of parenting
When the son of experiencing bullying, don't rush to blame the child for not being able to fight. It could be You, cause children needless dare fight. "The wrong parenting Patterns can also make weak minded individuals and cowardly," he explained. Mentally weak children it could be because you're applying an overly indulgent parenting and limiting their freedom.
The solution, try to give it a chance in children to develop all its capabilities so that children feel great. In addition don't always blame children for conditions that affect them, because it will only make the depression.
"Children who frequently bully was a child minder, tend not to have friends and reserved," said Roslina while women's beauty product launch some time ago in Jakarta.
He added, the active role of the parents is required to minimize the occurrence of bullying. Roslina then divide tips to minimize the risk of the threat of bullying on children:
1. Teach children reveal discomfrot
According to Roslina, parents often forget to teach children to make brazenly expressing feelings when feeling uncomfortable or not treated fairly. For example, when there was a someone who is nearby spit, teach children to admonish that person in a way that is polite.
Similar with Roslina, sexual psychologist Zoya Amirin also reveals the importance of this. "It also could help girls avoid the sexual abuse that might be experienced," said Zoya
2. Teach children to get along
One of the causes of bullying is the inability of the child to have a lot of friends, so prefer to be alone. The type of the child such as this tend to be considered weak so easily bullied. Identify the causes why children love to be alone, and then help them to be able to have a lot of friends.
3. Fix the concept of parenting
When the son of experiencing bullying, don't rush to blame the child for not being able to fight. It could be You, cause children needless dare fight. "The wrong parenting Patterns can also make weak minded individuals and cowardly," he explained. Mentally weak children it could be because you're applying an overly indulgent parenting and limiting their freedom.
The solution, try to give it a chance in children to develop all its capabilities so that children feel great. In addition don't always blame children for conditions that affect them, because it will only make the depression.
