Have a lot of friends and companions is one of the most valuable asset in life. Their presence makes life so much more colorful and fun. Many friends can also make us feel lonely, not needed, and also loved.
There are indeed times when we can experience the conflict, but they were thus able to build up and strengthen the friendship if handled appropriately.
However, what if one of Your guy friends suddenly claimed that he falls on you, while you yourself do not have special feeling ' sort of ' it to her?!
It cannot be taken lightly especially if you really liked her as a friend. Therefore, we need to handle this appropriately.
Talk openly and honestly that you do not have the same special feeling to it. If he wants to accept it, then there is no problem. Your relationship can continue as usual.
However, if he's less able to accept that decision, then you must be assertive, for the benefit both of you.
Be assertive (not rude) what is meant here is that you have to take certain actions as needed.
Make a deal agreed with. For example if it is forced to stay away from each other each other until he is neutral, then go for it. Or, if they remain friends as usual, then reiterate that he is not entitled to prohibit anyone close to You.
Also ask him whether he still wanted to continue a friendship with you? If Yes, then ask him to respect your decision and keep any agreements that have been made.
Never give false expectations to him by saying that maybe someday You could be love him also. This will not make him faster neutral, in fact he will keep hoping and waiting for you.
If you both have good faith to continue to maintain friendships, then regardless of how heavy step ' netral ' feeling that must be reached, then the two of you can make it through it. Remember, it's always a process that takes time.
However, if he still refused then you must be willing to let go of it go from your life.
