Affair with mother-in-law often causes the couple fight until marriage cracked. But according to research conducted in the US, the risk of divorce papers on spouse could plummet if the husband with his father-in-law.
Affair with mother-in-law often causes the couple fight until marriage cracked. The cause was a variety ranging from a difficult mother-in-law received a pair up like meddling household affairs.
Whether it is a problem with this in law always makes married couples in trouble? Research by Psychologist Terri Orbuch trying to figure out the answer to that question. He started his research since 1986 by involving 373 couples. Hundreds of couples that followed her life since the first year of their marriage and continue to be monitored until the next year.
From Terri research for 26 years was found, the risk of divorce on married couples declined 20% when my husband had a close relationship in law. On the contrary, the risk of divorce increases 20% if the wife is close to in-laws.
The Wall Street Journal, explains his research about Terri. According to him the results of his research is influenced by differences in style of the husband and wife closer with the in-laws.
"Women love to build close relationships with their in-laws, but women see it could make the law be intervened. While men are more his life focus more meet the needs of the family and not too take heart with the action of the law, "explained Terri.
View difference is because for women, marriage is very important. Their identity as a wife and mother is the center of their lives. "They interpret what was said and done in law into their identity as spouses and parents," he added.
Looking at the results of his research that, Orbuhc also provides advice on the parents. For those of you who have a boy, diharapan aware of the attitude of their daughter-in-law father-in-law do not want to unduly intervene. So are the parents of the girls should strive more open to closer with their man's son-in-law. The wife, it should also maintain restrictions with the in-laws. While the husband must strive to take care of and a father-in-law to treat him well.
Affair with mother-in-law often causes the couple fight until marriage cracked. The cause was a variety ranging from a difficult mother-in-law received a pair up like meddling household affairs.
Whether it is a problem with this in law always makes married couples in trouble? Research by Psychologist Terri Orbuch trying to figure out the answer to that question. He started his research since 1986 by involving 373 couples. Hundreds of couples that followed her life since the first year of their marriage and continue to be monitored until the next year.
From Terri research for 26 years was found, the risk of divorce on married couples declined 20% when my husband had a close relationship in law. On the contrary, the risk of divorce increases 20% if the wife is close to in-laws.
The Wall Street Journal, explains his research about Terri. According to him the results of his research is influenced by differences in style of the husband and wife closer with the in-laws.
"Women love to build close relationships with their in-laws, but women see it could make the law be intervened. While men are more his life focus more meet the needs of the family and not too take heart with the action of the law, "explained Terri.
View difference is because for women, marriage is very important. Their identity as a wife and mother is the center of their lives. "They interpret what was said and done in law into their identity as spouses and parents," he added.
Looking at the results of his research that, Orbuhc also provides advice on the parents. For those of you who have a boy, diharapan aware of the attitude of their daughter-in-law father-in-law do not want to unduly intervene. So are the parents of the girls should strive more open to closer with their man's son-in-law. The wife, it should also maintain restrictions with the in-laws. While the husband must strive to take care of and a father-in-law to treat him well.
