You are unique, certainly never the same with others. God actually has provided the best fit for you. However, when you focus on the flaws you feel, rather than on the best that you have, then you can be disappointed, even got sick.
My patient, a woman aged 30 years came in consultation with a variety of complaints. Ranging from chest pain, nausea, vomiting, no appetite, muscle pain, headache, until the complaints could not sleep. Patient stature I see tiny, especially compared with its accompanying his brother. His face I saw was actually quite pretty, indeed when compared with his younger brother is not the same. Time to reveal his or her concerns, reflected from his face, as there is a sense not satisfied with himself. And, as he did not realize, once blasted out of his mouth: "Sister-my sister is gorgeous all the doctors."...... Hmmm, in my heart whispering: "what you are not beautiful? You are beautiful as well. See your nose, eyes, lips, Chin, the look on your face, even your other accessories as women, very harmonious, Annette mumbled in my heart. "
We are sometimes too easy to compare ourselves with others. This is why my nose, my lips no similar to my neighbor, my eyes, my face is not as pretty as my sister. While standing in front of the glass, often what we see is, flaws, imperfections that we feel, have, even before we go to the glass, we already feel, imagining that we consider as flaws, shortcomings. so, when we reflect, we only focus on the lack of it. As a result, we miss seeing the actual surplus is on ourselves.
It is too easy to compare yourself to others, let alone just physically, will surely make you disappointed, even sick, such as the above patients. In addition, because every time you feel enveloped in this discontent, you actually torturing yourself. No wonder, the joy you will also subverted, your quality of life will surely decline.
Compare yourself, let alone You want to like everyone else, want to like Hollywood stars, for example, it is impossible, impossible, because you are you and the only thing in this world. You are you, with all the disadvantages, the advantages are obviously not the same as everyone else. Not only the physical, emotional, intellectual, and spiritual exercises You are also different. The way you walk, talk, smile, and even sleeping, snoring You alone is not the same as everyone else.
Therefore, accept yourself for what it is, with all the disadvantages, advantages exist. Accept as-is is a basic prerequisite in order that You are healthy and happy. This does not mean that you can take for granted, or not doing anything. Okay You want to make sharp the nose a little Pug you think, refit your Chin which is less good, or even enlarge your breasts like Ny MD.
However, my experience in some patients, not the satisfaction that You get, can actually otherwise. Your nose may be so high, your chin is more pointy, your breast is much larger, but mostly I see you not add a beautiful, even be outlandish. And, if so, perhaps you're more beautiful, sexy with your new appearance, blessing not necessarily You get.
Then, where there's this perfect man? Your nose according to You, you feel, perhaps not as good as you want, compare, whereas others see it is not the case. Or, perhaps it is in accordance with your thoughts, your nose may snub, but the eyes could be prettier, sexier You lips, your skin is smoother, "why did You not see this?" And, if indeed you are not beautiful, just based on Your physical, it once again did you, anyway there are perhaps other beauty You have, get your smile, your love, said words, preamble, behavior, talents, sprituality or even your intelligence.
In fact, beauty-beauty that cannot be seen while You are in front of the glass, even more important, will not fade like physical beauty. A great many people who are not born with a chic, gorgeous paras, but vice versa. So, accept yourself, rest assured that you are beautiful, sedition, don't compare. Remember, that we are born is not to lament, but to build, develop our potential, which has been entrusted by God, the creator.
My patient, a woman aged 30 years came in consultation with a variety of complaints. Ranging from chest pain, nausea, vomiting, no appetite, muscle pain, headache, until the complaints could not sleep. Patient stature I see tiny, especially compared with its accompanying his brother. His face I saw was actually quite pretty, indeed when compared with his younger brother is not the same. Time to reveal his or her concerns, reflected from his face, as there is a sense not satisfied with himself. And, as he did not realize, once blasted out of his mouth: "Sister-my sister is gorgeous all the doctors."...... Hmmm, in my heart whispering: "what you are not beautiful? You are beautiful as well. See your nose, eyes, lips, Chin, the look on your face, even your other accessories as women, very harmonious, Annette mumbled in my heart. "
We are sometimes too easy to compare ourselves with others. This is why my nose, my lips no similar to my neighbor, my eyes, my face is not as pretty as my sister. While standing in front of the glass, often what we see is, flaws, imperfections that we feel, have, even before we go to the glass, we already feel, imagining that we consider as flaws, shortcomings. so, when we reflect, we only focus on the lack of it. As a result, we miss seeing the actual surplus is on ourselves.
It is too easy to compare yourself to others, let alone just physically, will surely make you disappointed, even sick, such as the above patients. In addition, because every time you feel enveloped in this discontent, you actually torturing yourself. No wonder, the joy you will also subverted, your quality of life will surely decline.
Compare yourself, let alone You want to like everyone else, want to like Hollywood stars, for example, it is impossible, impossible, because you are you and the only thing in this world. You are you, with all the disadvantages, the advantages are obviously not the same as everyone else. Not only the physical, emotional, intellectual, and spiritual exercises You are also different. The way you walk, talk, smile, and even sleeping, snoring You alone is not the same as everyone else.
Therefore, accept yourself for what it is, with all the disadvantages, advantages exist. Accept as-is is a basic prerequisite in order that You are healthy and happy. This does not mean that you can take for granted, or not doing anything. Okay You want to make sharp the nose a little Pug you think, refit your Chin which is less good, or even enlarge your breasts like Ny MD.
However, my experience in some patients, not the satisfaction that You get, can actually otherwise. Your nose may be so high, your chin is more pointy, your breast is much larger, but mostly I see you not add a beautiful, even be outlandish. And, if so, perhaps you're more beautiful, sexy with your new appearance, blessing not necessarily You get.
Then, where there's this perfect man? Your nose according to You, you feel, perhaps not as good as you want, compare, whereas others see it is not the case. Or, perhaps it is in accordance with your thoughts, your nose may snub, but the eyes could be prettier, sexier You lips, your skin is smoother, "why did You not see this?" And, if indeed you are not beautiful, just based on Your physical, it once again did you, anyway there are perhaps other beauty You have, get your smile, your love, said words, preamble, behavior, talents, sprituality or even your intelligence.
In fact, beauty-beauty that cannot be seen while You are in front of the glass, even more important, will not fade like physical beauty. A great many people who are not born with a chic, gorgeous paras, but vice versa. So, accept yourself, rest assured that you are beautiful, sedition, don't compare. Remember, that we are born is not to lament, but to build, develop our potential, which has been entrusted by God, the creator.
