Find your beloved's heart fruit finally appeared and is born into the world so its own happiness to the couple. Not only women, men also feel the same amount of happiness.
When it became a new dad, of course there are a variety of things that change in life. Men usually shocked finds himself has an obligation, pressure and expectations or new demands which became her responsibilities.
What are the perceived the men as incipient father? Here are 10 things that generally perceived and experienced by men at the beginning of the transition be a new dad, as presented by Armin a. Brott, author of the bestselling book "The Expectant Father: Facts, Tips, and Advice for Dads-to-Be ' on the website Baby Center:
1. Confusion
Emotional upheavals conflicts will occur in the early months of the transition period turned out to be the father. On the one hand a sense of manly, strong and proud to have had one new family show up, but on the other hand appear sad feelings and no one else can help if the problem appears particularly associated with the fruit. For example, do not understand what is wanted by the baby when she was crying at midnight and everyone fell asleep.
2. a sense of love that new and different
There is no comparable feeling with a sense of compassion and love towards men's fruit of the heart. Men realize they could feel unconditional love on one person, namely children. No doubt the father will always try to dote on, pay attention, and keep the fruits of their hearts.
3. Mixed
When viewing the hatchlings, men sometimes feel confused because of the feeling of love to which he felt when the fruit of the heart was born, could turn out to be numb and hollow. He feels stunned and unprepared with the duty and responsibility to do as a father, and wanted to feel free as it used to be anymore. Sometimes this makes the men covered with guilt. He was fond of the fruit of his heart, but at the same time he was upset about losing all his freedom.
There is indeed time that someone can feel loved and hated something at the same time. This is normal and is a normal thing to happen to anyone and will pass concomitant time running.
4. Depression
Although a lot of people who thought that usually only women who are experiencing grief and symptoms babyblues, men too often get depressed when their baby is born. Women often get depressed just because of hormonal changes, whereas men due to the fact that happened in front of them.
Men do not have the time to leave or take a break as it brings women after they give birth. So when returning to work, a lot of things and a new task that is waiting for them, ranging from the disruption of sleep at night and also new responsibilities at home.
5. Fear
At the beginning of transition man becomes a father, he shrouded in fear that haunted his days. He feared not being able to be a good father, keeping his wife and son from danger, cannot suffice his family, not knowing what to do in taking care of his son, to the fear of doing such mistakes ever made by his father. Fear-fear like this normally experienced men in the transition from a husband to be a father.
6. relationship with spouse
Before becoming parents, couples can spend more time together, keeping each other and look at each other so closely intertwined the relations. However, when the fruit be born, everything changed. All the stuff that is done solely for the purposes of an infant. They felt the bedtime and tandem with spouse so reduced. Thus attempting to steal-steal time to do things together, even if only for a little while each day to talk and sit for a moment with the couple.
7. Interacting with fruit Hearts
On Sunday the sixth to eighth, the fruit of your heart cannot provide many of the response will be what other people are doing it. Rarely smiling, laughing, and very seldom response what exists around it. Instead, he often do is cry. A new task that has to be done man is be patient and continue to show compassion and his attention to the baby. The fruit of your heart will show the response as a reply to her father after passing through a phase of its growth.
8. the topics of conversation
If before becoming a father makes fun of men tend to her friend who told me all the things about their babies, now he is experiencing his own replacement. Starting from the first baby, BREAST MILK is often the wife who oozes, stitch's wife, until the color and consistency of pup survival is itself a topic that always he discussed with his friend, and unknowingly he loves discussing such matters.
9. the obligation as a parent
First time do not have children, the men usually make sure is it brings
When it became a new dad, of course there are a variety of things that change in life. Men usually shocked finds himself has an obligation, pressure and expectations or new demands which became her responsibilities.
What are the perceived the men as incipient father? Here are 10 things that generally perceived and experienced by men at the beginning of the transition be a new dad, as presented by Armin a. Brott, author of the bestselling book "The Expectant Father: Facts, Tips, and Advice for Dads-to-Be ' on the website Baby Center:
1. Confusion
Emotional upheavals conflicts will occur in the early months of the transition period turned out to be the father. On the one hand a sense of manly, strong and proud to have had one new family show up, but on the other hand appear sad feelings and no one else can help if the problem appears particularly associated with the fruit. For example, do not understand what is wanted by the baby when she was crying at midnight and everyone fell asleep.
2. a sense of love that new and different
There is no comparable feeling with a sense of compassion and love towards men's fruit of the heart. Men realize they could feel unconditional love on one person, namely children. No doubt the father will always try to dote on, pay attention, and keep the fruits of their hearts.
3. Mixed
When viewing the hatchlings, men sometimes feel confused because of the feeling of love to which he felt when the fruit of the heart was born, could turn out to be numb and hollow. He feels stunned and unprepared with the duty and responsibility to do as a father, and wanted to feel free as it used to be anymore. Sometimes this makes the men covered with guilt. He was fond of the fruit of his heart, but at the same time he was upset about losing all his freedom.
There is indeed time that someone can feel loved and hated something at the same time. This is normal and is a normal thing to happen to anyone and will pass concomitant time running.
4. Depression
Although a lot of people who thought that usually only women who are experiencing grief and symptoms babyblues, men too often get depressed when their baby is born. Women often get depressed just because of hormonal changes, whereas men due to the fact that happened in front of them.
Men do not have the time to leave or take a break as it brings women after they give birth. So when returning to work, a lot of things and a new task that is waiting for them, ranging from the disruption of sleep at night and also new responsibilities at home.
5. Fear
At the beginning of transition man becomes a father, he shrouded in fear that haunted his days. He feared not being able to be a good father, keeping his wife and son from danger, cannot suffice his family, not knowing what to do in taking care of his son, to the fear of doing such mistakes ever made by his father. Fear-fear like this normally experienced men in the transition from a husband to be a father.
6. relationship with spouse
Before becoming parents, couples can spend more time together, keeping each other and look at each other so closely intertwined the relations. However, when the fruit be born, everything changed. All the stuff that is done solely for the purposes of an infant. They felt the bedtime and tandem with spouse so reduced. Thus attempting to steal-steal time to do things together, even if only for a little while each day to talk and sit for a moment with the couple.
7. Interacting with fruit Hearts
On Sunday the sixth to eighth, the fruit of your heart cannot provide many of the response will be what other people are doing it. Rarely smiling, laughing, and very seldom response what exists around it. Instead, he often do is cry. A new task that has to be done man is be patient and continue to show compassion and his attention to the baby. The fruit of your heart will show the response as a reply to her father after passing through a phase of its growth.
8. the topics of conversation
If before becoming a father makes fun of men tend to her friend who told me all the things about their babies, now he is experiencing his own replacement. Starting from the first baby, BREAST MILK is often the wife who oozes, stitch's wife, until the color and consistency of pup survival is itself a topic that always he discussed with his friend, and unknowingly he loves discussing such matters.
9. the obligation as a parent
First time do not have children, the men usually make sure is it brings
