Childhood is a time to learn and know things that are going on around them. But sometimes, it's hard to teach the children what should and should not do. They often behave against and difficult to deal with in cooperation.
If forbidden to do something, children usually will still do it or be wayward. What causes them and often wayward patience her parents? How to let the fruit of careful listen to You?
Here are ways to cope with a child psychologist child development according to ornery, Sussane Ayers Denham was quoted as saying of the baby center :
1. the fruit of your heart don't mean disobedience or against what you say.
The little one is usually only contested her parents, but not in a negative connotation. Kids just trying to conform to the Ordinance and the regulations contained in his family, they are still in a transition phase and requires parents who can teach and give an example to them. It is the kids do in order to be able to continue to run these commands there are or whether or not parental figure around them. In the process, you must teach him why rules it has to be done and what are the benefits of the regulations for him. It will not run easily and of course should be supervised properly to run perfectly.
2. the child does not want to budge for granted against her parents.
The second point this happened because according to them, listen to and follow it the desire of parents to say they lost out in the competition. So did as a parent, You have a lot to be patient when dealing with treatment of the child who likes to fight or disobey.
3. Toddler tend to want to know how far the restrictions or prohibition orders.
They want to know how far the ban that you give him. What if they eat while watching television will instantly get the punishment of the parents, or only if they do not spend more if they were food while watching television. They're just curious and wanted answers and a clear restriction of your command.
4. Children want guidance from parents all the time.
Toddlers want their parents always guide and accompany them at all times. Spending time and working on things with her parents as well as getting a valuable lesson at any time in his life, actually preferred.
So, in fact they do not for disobedience and resisting your command. According to the children's better testing and knowing what you want rather than her parents lied and did the ban on behind you. Rather than disappointed will his disobedience, more fine if you address it with a different mindset.
Make a clear limitation in the ban You and correct the situation by preventing the actions of their disobedience. For example, if You do not want it to play Your favorite crystal collection, then put it collections of crystals on the cupboard is far from its reach and do not forget to lock the Cabinet. So did the books Your favourite collection, rather than continuously says the same thing that they do not play the book, move only the books to the higher cupboards that are far away from their reach.
Learn to reduce unnecessary quarrels with the fruit of the heart, and is increase Your sense of humor. Because in doing the action against her parents, children often behaving silly but skillfully to fool you.
If forbidden to do something, children usually will still do it or be wayward. What causes them and often wayward patience her parents? How to let the fruit of careful listen to You?
Here are ways to cope with a child psychologist child development according to ornery, Sussane Ayers Denham was quoted as saying of the baby center :
1. the fruit of your heart don't mean disobedience or against what you say.
The little one is usually only contested her parents, but not in a negative connotation. Kids just trying to conform to the Ordinance and the regulations contained in his family, they are still in a transition phase and requires parents who can teach and give an example to them. It is the kids do in order to be able to continue to run these commands there are or whether or not parental figure around them. In the process, you must teach him why rules it has to be done and what are the benefits of the regulations for him. It will not run easily and of course should be supervised properly to run perfectly.
2. the child does not want to budge for granted against her parents.
The second point this happened because according to them, listen to and follow it the desire of parents to say they lost out in the competition. So did as a parent, You have a lot to be patient when dealing with treatment of the child who likes to fight or disobey.
3. Toddler tend to want to know how far the restrictions or prohibition orders.
They want to know how far the ban that you give him. What if they eat while watching television will instantly get the punishment of the parents, or only if they do not spend more if they were food while watching television. They're just curious and wanted answers and a clear restriction of your command.
4. Children want guidance from parents all the time.
Toddlers want their parents always guide and accompany them at all times. Spending time and working on things with her parents as well as getting a valuable lesson at any time in his life, actually preferred.
So, in fact they do not for disobedience and resisting your command. According to the children's better testing and knowing what you want rather than her parents lied and did the ban on behind you. Rather than disappointed will his disobedience, more fine if you address it with a different mindset.
Make a clear limitation in the ban You and correct the situation by preventing the actions of their disobedience. For example, if You do not want it to play Your favorite crystal collection, then put it collections of crystals on the cupboard is far from its reach and do not forget to lock the Cabinet. So did the books Your favourite collection, rather than continuously says the same thing that they do not play the book, move only the books to the higher cupboards that are far away from their reach.
Learn to reduce unnecessary quarrels with the fruit of the heart, and is increase Your sense of humor. Because in doing the action against her parents, children often behaving silly but skillfully to fool you.
